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“What goes around comes around.”

Do Good, Get Good? The Truth About 'What Goes Around Comes Around'

Have you ever heard someone say, 'What goes around comes around'? It sounds fair, doesn't it, like everyone gets what they deserve.

This saying often pops up when we see someone being unkind, and we think, 'They'll get theirs!' Or maybe we hope that if we're extra good, good things will just naturally find their way back to us. It feels like a natural law, almost like gravity. We want to believe that there's a kind of balance in the world, where good deeds are rewarded and bad deeds eventually catch up to people. And in some ways, yes, our actions do have consequences. If you are kind to others, they are more likely to be kind back to you. If you are always grumpy, people might avoid you. That's just how human relationships often work. But the saying 'what goes around comes around' tries to make it a hard and fast rule for everything in life, almost like a guarantee. It can make us think that good people never suffer and bad people never prosper, which we know isn't always true in this life. God does care about justice, and He promises to deal with all things fairly in His time. But sometimes, what we see happening in the world doesn't perfectly match up with this simple saying. It's important to understand that God's ways are much bigger and deeper than just a simple tit-for-tat rule. He offers grace and forgiveness, which goes way beyond getting what we 'deserve.'

What Does God Say?

Galatians 6:7

“Do not be deceived. God will not be made a fool. For a person will reap what he sows,”

This verse tells us that we harvest what we plant. If we plant seeds of kindness, we will likely see kindness grow. If we plant seeds of discord, we will see discord.

Romans 12:19

“Do not avenge yourselves, dear friends, but give place to God’s wrath, for it is written, “ Vengeance is mine, I will repay ,” says the Lord.”

God reminds us not to take revenge. He says that getting even belongs to Him, and He will make things right in His own way and time.

Matthew 5:45

“so that you may be like your Father in heaven, since he causes the sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.”

Jesus teaches that God sends rain on both good people and bad people. This shows that blessings and challenges don't always follow a strict 'what goes around comes around' rule in this life.

Psalm 37:23-24

“The Lord grants success to the one whose behavior he finds commendable. Even if he trips, he will not fall headlong, for the Lord holds his hand.”

Even if good people stumble, the Lord holds their hand and helps them up. This means God's love and support are not always based on perfect performance or what we 'deserve.'

So, Is It True?

Missing an important biblical truth

While our actions do have consequences, and we often experience the natural results of our choices, the saying 'what goes around comes around' misses the bigger truth of God's grace and His ultimate justice. It doesn't fully account for God's mercy or for the fact that life isn't always fair in this world.

The Takeaway

God's love is bigger than our actions alone.

We've heard what people say. But what does God say?