Matthew 18
Greatness That Makes Room for Others
Jesus teaches His followers what life in His kingdom should look like. True greatness shows itself in humble hearts, care for the weak, a desire to bring people back, and forgiveness that comes from the heart.
Walking Through Matthew 18
A Different Kind of Greatness (Matthew 18:1-5)
1 At that time the disciples came to Jesus saying, “Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?” 2 He called a child, had him stand among them, 3 and said, “I tell you the truth, unless you turn around and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven! 4 Whoever then humbles himself like this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven. 5 And whoever welcomes a child like this in my name welcomes me.Matthew 18:1-5 · NET Bible
The disciples ask who is greatest in the kingdom of heaven. Jesus answers by placing a child among them. Children were loved in that world, but they had little rank or power. Jesus is not saying that children never sin or always make wise choices. He points to their lowly place and dependence on others. His followers must turn away from chasing importance and become humble. This is not merely advice for moving higher in the kingdom; it concerns entering it at all. Welcoming a little one in His name means welcoming Jesus Himself. I want us to notice where Jesus directs our attention: away from our own standing and toward people others may overlook.
Take Harm and Sin Seriously (Matthew 18:6-9)
6 “But if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin, it would be better for him to have a huge millstone hung around his neck and to be drowned in the open sea. 7 Woe to the world because of stumbling blocks! It is necessary that stumbling blocks come, but woe to the person through whom they come. 8 If your hand or your foot causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to enter life crippled or lame than to have two hands or two feet and be thrown into eternal fire. 9 And if your eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. It is better for you to enter into life with one eye than to have two eyes and be thrown into fiery hell.Matthew 18:6-9 · NET Bible
Jesus now warns against leading His little ones into sin. These little ones include humble people who believe in Him. The image of a heavy millstone and the sea shows how seriously He treats their harm. Temptations will come in this broken world, but that does not excuse the person who brings them. Jesus then speaks about removing a hand, foot, or eye that leads into sin. This is strong picture language, not a command to injure ourselves. Sin begins deeper than a body part. His point is that nothing we value is worth keeping if it draws us away from God. Love protects others, and wisdom refuses to make peace with what destroys us.
The Father Values the One (Matthew 18:10-14)
10 “See that you do not disdain one of these little ones. For I tell you that their angels in heaven always see the face of my Father in heaven. 12 What do you think? If someone owns a hundred sheep and one of them goes astray, will he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountains and go look for the one that went astray? 13 And if he finds it, I tell you the truth, he will rejoice more over it than over the ninety-nine that did not go astray. 14 In the same way, your Father in heaven is not willing that one of these little ones be lost.Matthew 18:10-14 · NET Bible
Jesus tells His followers not to look down on even one of these little ones. He speaks of their angels being before the Father in heaven, showing that those who seem unimportant on earth matter in heaven. This does not give us a full teaching about each person having a guardian angel. The focus stays on the Father’s care. Jesus pictures a shepherd searching for one sheep that has wandered from the flock. Finding that sheep brings great joy. The Father does not want one of these little ones to perish. I find deep comfort here: God’s care is not limited to the crowd. His love reaches the one who has wandered and needs to be brought back.
Correction That Seeks to Restore (Matthew 18:15-20)
15 “If your brother sins, go and show him his fault when the two of you are alone. If he listens to you, you have regained your brother. 16 But if he does not listen, take one or two others with you, so that at the testimony of two or three witnesses every matter may be established . 17 If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. If he refuses to listen to the church, treat him like a Gentile or a tax collector. 18 “I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth will have been bound in heaven, and whatever you release on earth will have been released in heaven. 19 Again, I tell you the truth, if two of you on earth agree about whatever you ask, my Father in heaven will do it for you. 20 For where two or three are assembled in my name, I am there among them.”Matthew 18:15-20 · NET Bible
When a fellow believer sins, Jesus calls for a private conversation first. The goal is to gain back a brother or sister, not win an argument. If that fails, one or two others help establish the facts. Continued refusal brings the matter before the church. Someone who still will not listen must be treated as outside its fellowship, though never beyond our love or God’s mercy. Binding and loosing concern the church’s responsibility to make decisions under heaven’s authority. They do not give leaders unlimited power. Jesus promises His presence as His people gather in His name and seek His will together. The promise about united prayer belongs within this setting, not as a guarantee that any shared wish will come true.
Mercy Beyond Counting (Matthew 18:21-27)
21 Then Peter came to him and said, “Lord, how many times must I forgive my brother who sins against me? As many as seven times?” 22 Jesus said to him, “Not seven times, I tell you, but seventy-seven times! 23 “For this reason, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his slaves. 24 As he began settling his accounts, a man who owed 10,000 talents was brought to him. 25 Because he was not able to repay it, the lord ordered him to be sold, along with his wife, children, and whatever he possessed, and repayment to be made. 26 Then the slave threw himself to the ground before him, saying, ‘Be patient with me, and I will repay you everything.’ 27 The lord had compassion on that slave and released him, and forgave him the debt.Matthew 18:21-27 · NET Bible
Peter asks how often he must forgive someone who sins against him. He offers seven times, but Jesus gives a number far beyond that. His point is not to build a longer scorecard. Forgiveness is not meant to stop at a fixed count. Jesus then tells of a king settling accounts with his servants. One servant owes an enormous debt that he cannot possibly repay. The order to sell him, his family, and his goods shows his desperate position. He asks for patience and promises payment, but the king gives far more than he requests. Moved with pity, the king releases him and cancels the debt. This is mercy the servant could never earn.
When Mercy Stops With Us (Matthew 18:28-35)
28 After he went out, that same slave found one of his fellow slaves who owed him 100 silver coins. So he grabbed him by the throat and started to choke him, saying, ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ 29 Then his fellow slave threw himself down and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will repay you.’ 30 But he refused. Instead, he went out and threw him in prison until he repaid the debt. 31 When his fellow slaves saw what had happened, they were very upset and went and told their lord everything that had taken place. 32 Then his lord called the first slave and said to him, ‘Evil slave! I forgave you all that debt because you begged me! 33 Should you not have shown mercy to your fellow slave, just as I showed it to you?’ 34 And in anger his lord turned him over to the prison guards to torture him until he repaid all he owed. 35 So also my heavenly Father will do to you, if each of you does not forgive your brother from your heart.”Matthew 18:28-35 · NET Bible
The forgiven servant finds a fellow servant who owes him a much smaller amount. He grabs him, demands payment, and has him imprisoned despite his plea for patience. Other servants report this to the king. The king condemns his lack of mercy and hands him over for punishment until the impossible debt is paid. Jesus ends with a serious warning about refusing to forgive from the heart. We do not purchase God’s forgiveness by forgiving others. Yet a settled refusal to show mercy clashes with a heart that has received His mercy. Forgiveness does not call evil good or remove every needed boundary. It does mean that we cannot receive grace while claiming the right to be merciless.
- Humility — letting go of the need to rank above others.
- Mercy — showing compassion to someone who cannot demand or earn it.
Where is Jesus challenging your desire to be important, to be right, or to keep score?
Father, thank You for caring for each of us and forgiving debts we could never repay. Make us humble, careful with others, and ready to show mercy. Help us seek restoration with truth, wisdom, and love.
